What
God Can Do
Dee
Barroso
I have been in nursing 36 years and have seen many miracles. One of them remains very vivid in my
memory! When talking with other nurses
working that day, they always bring up this amazing event…
I was working in a Medical Intensive Care Unit. We received an older lady named Shirley from a nursing home who was in respiratory distress
and on a ventilator. Shirley’s husband, though
healthy, was unable to take care of his wife at home. They were now living in a nursing home so
they could be together. While she was in
the hospital, he came to visit everyday. Sitting next to her, he would talk to her while
holding her hand.
One day Shirley started fighting the ventilator - trying to get
out of bed! Since she was fighting so
hard, the doctor said, “Let’s remove the breathing tube and get her off the
machine.” Shortly after taking her off
the ventilator, she started screaming! I
went in and asked her what was wrong. She
said she needed to go home and be with her husband! I tried to calm her down and told her we needed
to get her breathing better so that she could go home. She calmed down and then started screaming
again. She repeatedly insisted that she
had to go home and be with her husband! I
told her he would be there shortly, since visiting time was getting close. Hearing that settled her down once more.
Shortly after leaving her room, I heard Shirley scream again,
"He's here! He's here!” Going back
into the room, I asked her what was wrong.
She exclaimed, “My husband is here with me!” Shirley was in a
rotating bed that had an air mattress and an arm pad. She was patting the arm pad. I told her that it was just the arm pad. “No, it’s not!” she responded emphatically. “My husband is lying here next to me! He has
come to say good-bye! He is in the
Coronary Care Unit next door.” Strangely, she felt as though her husband was
in both places.
I went out to the desk and called the CCU, "Hi, this is Dee
in MICU. I know this is going to sound
crazy - but do you have Mr. Bailey there?” The nurse told me to hold on and then put the
nurse manager Carol on the phone, “Hi, Dee, how can I help you?” I again said, “ I know this is going to sound
crazy, but Mrs. Bailey is insisting that Mr. Bailey is over there and that he is here lying in bed next to
with her telling her good-bye!” Carol then replied, “A couple hours earlier Mr.
Bailey was brought in, and he has just died!!” I was flabbergasted!
When the hospital chaplin went into the room to tell Shirley that
Mr. Bailey had passed, she was crying. As
soon as she heard the news of his passing, a smile appeared on her face. She
told us he had already told her good bye, and that he would see her soon. She was very quiet from that point forward.
Shirley recovered enough to return to the nursing home. However, she passed away a short time later.
God works in wonderful and mysterious ways to comfort us.